What is?

14 Mar

What is a relationship?

re·la·tion·ship 

Noun

  1. The way in which two or more concepts, objects, or people are connected, or the state of being connected.
  2. The state of being connected by blood or marriage.

Are two people only in a relationship if they call it by a name, label, or status? Personally I don’t think so. We spend so much time trying to name things…some obvious and are ok like sister, daughter, friend, husband…but then things get a little crazy. People feel the need to describe things…I understand it to an extent. When you are friends with benefits, it’s complicated, in an open relationship, mutual understanding, or other crazy things…just stop. Either you are available or you aren’t. That’s up for you to decide.  I think a lot of time we get so caught up in titles that we forget to enjoy the moment. We forget to enjoy all the little things. Is it really so necessary to share every little detail of your relationship with the rest of the world? Sure you can share very happy moments, or ask some close friends for advice, but there is no need to let everyone know you are fighting or what it’s about, or to share very private moments. Some things are just for you two. If you share them with others…it destroys some of the intimacy. Some things are meant to share between two people to make your bond stronger. I’ve heard them called inside jokes or other things of that nature.

I guess I just want to say to people…to enjoy what you have…and if you’re not happy, fix it or let go. Stop focusing on the nit picky details. Otherwise you’re probably going to miss out on some amazing moments with people you care about! So enjoy what you have while you have it. You never know when it will be gone. So give it all you’ve got…and try to make the best of it. 😀

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3 Responses to “What is?”

  1. celestealluvial March 15, 2013 at 3:15 am #

    X0X0X0X0

  2. celestealluvial July 12, 2013 at 1:08 am #

    I-admire-your-integrity-and-discretion…..that-is-how-it-should-be….You-are-so-mature-in-your-thinking-here-and-I-am-very-proud-of-you….Love-you….xxoo

    • aurorasawakening July 12, 2013 at 3:47 am #

      Thanks mom. I love you too. I learn from you and my boyfriend a lot. And now I’m learning from his mother. I feel like a sponge…there is so much knowledge I still need to soak up…but more people need to share things like this! People lack intimacy and understanding these days. Or just give up when things get tough…and we BOTH know what that’s like. Love you so much mom. Thank you for your countless insights of wisdom. xoxoxo

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