I’m not rude, I just think you’re stupid

18 Oct

Originally posted on curtisforrester:

OK, not stupid per se but that title did make me chuckle. But seriously – just because I don’t agree with you does not mean I’m rude for verbalize it. True, it’s not what you say, it’s how you say it.

Case in point: I’ve a friend who is a very zealous Christian. A “zealot”. She wears her Christian experience on her sleeve – has the blog, the email list to let you know she’s updated her blog, and will share her experience to anyone at any time. She’s not a “nut” – she’s just vocal and very much enjoys her spiritual journey.

Her constant words are discordant to my reality. Yet, I quietly tolerate her since she’s an otherwise pleasant and energetic presence. She’s the wife of a former boss who is equally religious, yet never speaks of his beliefs.  I’ve dropped hints as to what I believe – or more precisely…

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Happy Saturday!

18 Oct

Happy Saturday lovely readers! Today I want to encourage everyone to read something, though honestly, I’m sure most of you do and you’re not the ones I really wish would read something. Haha.

But just find something nice to stimulate your mind today. Fiction or non fiction. Happy or sad. Just something to enjoy but also get you thinking. Sadly, especially where I come from, a lot of people don’t use their brains anymore. I’m frustrated with how many people I see that just blindly follow things and never question anything. It’s almost sad, but when it starts effecting gov laws and every day life, it gets a bit frustrating.

I was always taught, from a very young age, to question everything! It’s ok. It’s healthy and normal to question things. It’s supposed to help you learn more about yourself and what you understand, what you believe.

You know, thinking about it, I believe that because we live in such a fast paced society, that probably has a lot to do with the issues that I’m frustrated with. People don’t stop and take the time too read because it’s too long. People aren’t having good communications with friends and family because they are always doing something else on their phone or computer whenever they are talking. I know not everyone is like that…but I see so many people do this and it really makes me sad.

We are taking for granted some of the most important parts of human life! Remember to take time to do something for yourself, to educate yourself a little more, to make yourself happy, to make someone else happy, to cherish those around you that you love! You never know when it’s their last day or yours.

Sorry this post was all over the place. I just have a lot on my mind. :p Obviously.

I think I’m going to find something good to read and relax for now. Have a wonderful weekend everyone! Please take care!

Best Wishes,


Hello Lovely Readers!

17 Oct

I have a few posts I’ve been working on, but I’ve been a little busy. I promise I will get to them as soon as I can. I hope you all are doing well! It is finally ALMOST feeling like autumn where I am! The hottest it’s been this week is 80, so we are finally getting there! Although I need to find my jeans! They are somewhere packed away with winter clothes.

So I hope everyone is staying safe. If anyone has any requests or stories they want me to comment on, then please let me know in the comments or on my fb page and I would be more than happy to check it out!

I’ve been watching an old show from my child hood, Sailor Moon, and I’m REALLY enjoying it.

What are some of your fav shows from childhood that you would love to watch again?

Comment Below Let Me Know!

Book and Drama Recommendations?

30 Sep

Hello again. I do realize that this is my second post for today. I apologize if it’s too much, but this is my blog and I just feel like writing.

I am currently looking for at home work opportunities, so if any of you are aware of any and can let me know, that would be great!

Also, I would like some recommendations on any Korean Dramas, Japanese Dramas, or any good books. I like quite a wide variety of genres, but I mostly want books that I can easily find online. I don’t mind educational books as well. I’m always eager to learn! I’m currently watching Emergency Couple. I’m really liking it so far. I also really enjoyed Faith, and Boys Over Flowers. (Yes I really like Lee Min Ho. I think he is a very good actor!)

If you could leave your recommendations for me or message me on my fb page, that would be really great! I look forward to hearing from you guys. Hopefully everyone is safe and well.

I promise to try to write more and hopefully get me “umph” back!

Have a wonderful and safe day.

Love Always



30 Sep

I had a pretty long post for today, but something happened and everything was deleted. I’m pretty sad really!

Oh well I guess it happens.

So now I’m going to do something a little different.

If anyone has pictures of autumn where they are from, I invite you to share them with me! I just love autumn. You can send fall fashion, scenery foods, whatever. As long as it has to do with autumn, I think it will be cool!

Today I challenge everyone to get a little fresh air if possible. Whether that’s going outside and sitting down, taking a short walk, or just opening your windows for a while. Do whatever you can to get some fresh air and/or sunshine! This can do so much to lift your spirits and can improve your health as well!

I’m keeping this post short since I had over 700 words on the other one that disappeared. I thought it was saving to a draft, but it didn’t. Oh well! Lesson learned! Even if I am on a roll, do my best to try to save multiple times!

I hope you all have the most wonderful day!

With love and best wishes


First Outfit from my Dresslink Haul

25 Sep

Hi guys! Got my first haul from dress link. I’m still not sure about a video, but here is the first outfit and shoes.

Now I’m not sure why, but the products all smell a little fishy, but I hear that from a lot of people and should come out with a wash. It’s the factory smell from what I’m told.

The top part of this is slightly see through, but if you wear an undershirt or the right bra, it should be fine. Only the top part is like that. The bottom is great. The middle part, which is covered by the belt it came with, is stretchy, so it’s easy to get on. I got my clothes in Medium US size.

The shoes I got in a US 8. They fit perfect and are very nice. The top part laces up. It buttons on the back so it can easily be taken off if it doesn’t go with a particular outfit. They are very comfortable.

I’m not sure if I’m going to do a video or not, if I do I will still take pics, but I may not go into as many details. I will also do an over view of the whole site if I make a video. I will keep you updated in case anyone is interested.

Rating: 9/10

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Hello everyone

21 Sep

Sorry it’s been a while. I was in a move again and had a lot going on. I am ok and I am enjoying it here.

It’s almost fall here on the west coast in Cali! Officially it starts Tuesday. Hehe. It doesn’t feel like it though! It was still in the 100’s last week. Cooled down for a few days but it’s already warming back up. That’s ok. More pool time for me! :)

I hope everyone is doing well. :D I’m very excited for the approaching season! I have some new clothes coming! I’ve had a few requests to do a review on the site and the clothes. Not sure if I will blog it or attempt to make a video. I will do something though. Not sure if I will do it on here since that’s not my usual work. xD This is my blog however, so if I want to change it up or do something different I will.

That being said, I hope you all are still doing positive things in your day! Even a little smile can brighten a day.

Today I want to ask you guys a few questions!

1. What’s your favorite season and why?

2. What are some things you love about fall?

3. Are you looking forward to anything particular this fall?

Please leave me your answers! I love to hear from you guys!

As always, with love,